A Beautiful Balancing Act

Balancing your life takes:





Only hearing what matters

Being gentle to what you are balancing

Knowing where others focus point is so they can be in balance with you

To Wrestle or Not to Wrestle- That Really is the Question

Going arm to arm, chest to chest, head to head, muscle to muscle and strength to strength…hearing the breathing of the other, hearing the pounding of the hearts…sweat….the battle of minds, will and emotions.

wrestle1What is the perfect will of G-d? What action is to be taken for his glory, for his higher purpose? How do I decipher His voice from my mind and all the deep and undiscoverable emotions that are attached? What will it cost me? Will the pain be unbearable?

Will truth prevail? Will the sword cut to the core and reveal the naked truth? Will that be allowed…..or will the will of man hide behind the darkness and not allow the flood of freedom to rush in and create a cacophony of life to all those around?

The Lord loves when we wrestle with Him. It creates intimacy with him- we being known and he being known to us.  There is no other experience as complete. Jacob wrestled with G-d. Jacob cried out for Elohim to bless him.  He could not go on with out it.

That is the most base desire for every human being- to know and be known by their creator and be blessed by him.  How else can we live in freedom and peace? Oh, what measures we have taken to be fulfilled in other ways only because we have not known or are too afraid to know the power of his love for us.

Don’t Be a Mentriloquist!


Speak from your heart, not your mind. Otherwise, you’re being a                  MENTRILOQUIST! 

You are hijacking the heart- where the real issues of life reside. Data, facts and figures do not inspire. They are dead information apart from how they effect people’s lives.

Inspiration comes when someone lets their life-river that’s deep; flow, spring and bubble out, creating life around them. Inspiration comes when someone beats all odds of horrible stats and knocks them down to make new data that is unexpected.


A mentriloquist only lives in the mind- apart from his real self- shut down from being his authentically created self.  That person just breathes to keep his mind and body alive….working to feed it and find some pleasure and sleeping to sustain it. No one escapes heart ache and tragedy. The beauty of life is the journey of finding your broken heart hidden in the deep and allowing the light to heal it.